He's just not that into you....

I have been reading the book turned major motion picture: "he's just not that into you".
All I have to say is GENIUS. The concept is dead on and I really wish I would have come across this book about 9 years ago when I was in college. May have saved me much heartache!

The concept is simple:
"if a (sane) guy really likes you, there ain't nothing that's going to get in his wayk. And if he's not sane , why would you want him?"
"All the years I'd been complaining about men and there mixed messages; now I saw they weren't mixed messages at all. I was the one that was mixed up. Because the fact was, these men had simply not been that into me".

The book goes on and breaks it down by the type of guy....examples:
He's Just Not that into you if he's not calling you.
He's Just Not that into you if he's having sex with someone else.
He's Just not that into you if he's Married (and Other Insane variations of being unavailable).
He's Just not that into you if he's a selfish jerk, a bully, or a really big freak

I'm only part way through the book but it just made things make sense when looking back on many of my pre-marriage relationships...and all I have to say is THANK GOD I AM NOT DATING! I plan to keep it that way!